Coping In A Crisis

By Roberta Smith
Counsellor, Mind For Life
How to combat feelings of loneliness and isolation due to COVID-19
The pandemic is a recent crisis which has isolated a lot of us, myself included. I was fortunate enough to have my sister with me and I moved in to live with her when I realised the lockdown was scheduled to happen at any moment.
I can empathise with how other people feel when they like their own space and live alone but are unable to see their friends as before.
Here are a few helpful suggestions which may assist you when you are feeling alone:
Virtual Social Life
Whilst social events are not allowed due to restrictions in some countries, there is nothing to stop you from having a chat with friends online via social media. I recommend that you try organising regular video chats via Skype or Zoom with friends and family. I have found them to be a great alternative to face to face contact and if you have a good internet connection, there is no limit to how many people you can chat with on a Zoom call.
I recommend that you download Zoom for video chats which allows a high number of users. You can also use Facebook Messenger for smaller groups as it has been found that the sound is clear and not distorted. I want to take a moment to express my gratitude for technology and developments in social media which have enabled me to keep in touch with family who live in different countries.
Self Care
I have been listening to my body more often through regular meditation and maintaining a healthier diet. I find that keeping healthy both mentally and physically through regular exercise and a balanced diet ensures that I maintain a positive and proactive attitude, despite the current crisis we’re in.
Here are a few feel good foods which I eat on a regular basis to help keep me energised:
Here are some tasty recipes that you can try making at home:
Yellowfin Fish Curry
Teriyaki Beef Stir fry
Mango Berry Swirl Smoothie
Lebanese Chicken & Rice- Riz ala’ dajaj
Speak up and share your problems
I have found that speaking up during this lockdown period has helped me to speak my mind and think about things more clearly with some perspective on the situation. I don’t stress about things which are out of my control now. I found that keeping a gratitude journal has helped me get out my feelings as well and express thoughts which perhaps I haven’t wanted to share with friends and family.
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Now that restrictions have eased, I meditate using YouTube.(See the link below for a recent one which I used) I find that ten minutes of meditation is sufficient for me to maintain the focus on my breath and body. At times, I am able to meditate for longer using Headspace. (Please see the link below)
Expand your mind by learning new skills
I have found that sharing new experiences with others such as learning to surf and skate has been beneficial during this COVID-19. It has provided me with something to focus on other than the pandemic and has relieved some stress.
I am also a little scared of the waves in the ocean, and so it has been a good excuse to gain more confidence, so that I am safe when out in the sea.
By learning healthy ways to cope in a crisis, it will make you, the people you care about, and your community that much stronger and more resilient!
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